It's weird how left out people feel if you do wedding stuff without them. In movies, when someone's sibling gets married, the main character just shows up to the wedding and wears the stupid dress. I know my sisters want to help, but there are 5 of them. And I have my 3 best friends who I know like being involved in this process. And my 6 future siblings-in-law. I have no idea if they have any interest in being involved, actually. Which leaves 9 people* who definitely want to be clued-in to big decisions. Maybe more. But ughhhhhh it's hard keeping people updated all the time! And you don't want to be all, "Heyyyy I'm updating you every 5 seconds because there's nothing in your life more important than my weddinggggg" so where EXACTLY is the line?
*5 sisters, 3 friends, 1 mom.