That cross-section of individuality and commitment to unity in marriage. It's sometimes a pain in the ass. Notably, when you really want one outcome to a situation, but the situation as a whole is really more your partner's domain than yours, and you have to trust that s/he has your best interests in mind and won't back down from obstacles. Even when you would really really like to be the person to address the obstacles yourself because OMG YOU ALWAYS HANDLE YOUR OWN PROBLEMS NOT DOING ANYTHING YOURSELF SUCKS.
Luckily, while we were laying in bed (once again consciously making ourselves late to work) this morning, we learned our bed is perfectly positioned and pointed for marital and family happiness. Per the Feng Shui Diva. So that's handy, I guess.